Weddings are steeped in tradition, with time-honored customs passed down through generations. Yet, just like fashion and technology, wedding trends evolve too. In this blog post, we will delve into some popular wedding traditions and examine how they compare to the current trends embraced by couples today. From the moment couples first lay eyes on each other to the accessories they choose to wear, let's explore the fascinating world of wedding customs and current traditions!
Photography: Brandon Smith Photography
Tradition: Waiting till the Ceremony vs. The Trend: The First Look
Traditionally, couples waited until the ceremony to see each other for the big reveal! This increased the anticipation and romanticism, as the groom would catch his first glimpse of the bride walking down the aisle. However, a contemporary trend called the "first look" challenges this tradition. Couples now opt to meet privately before the ceremony, capturing their genuine emotions in an intimate setting. This approach creates a more relaxed atmosphere, allowing for stunning pre-wedding photos without missing out on the emotional impact of the ceremonial reveal! NOTE: Did you know that NOT seeing each other before the ceremony started because marriages were arranged and if either the Bride or Groom saw each other before the ceremony (and didn’t like what they say), it was common that person would not show up and the ceremony would not take place? Understanding where traditions and superstitions come from can be more important that the actual tradition.
Photography: Bianca Photography | Venue: Kahala Resort
Tradition: Bouquet & Garter Toss vs. The Trend: alternative ways
The bouquet toss and garter toss have long been popular wedding traditions. Symbolizing good luck and fertility, these customs often amused guests while adding a touch of fun to the celebration. However, many modern couples now view these traditions as outdated or uncomfortable. Instead, they choose to focus on creating a more inclusive environment, opting for alternatives such as passing on the bouquet to a loved one, or organizing a group dance where everyone can participate equally! Couples have even put a spin on the garter toss, having the groom wear the garter and the bride remove it!
Photography: Mike Pham Photography | Kris Labang Photography
Tradition: wearing a veil vs. The Trend: various hair pieces
For centuries, brides have worn veils as a symbol of purity, modesty, and the anticipation of the groom's first glimpse. However, with changing attitudes towards gender and the desire for more personalized expressions, the tradition of wearing a veil has become increasingly optional. Modern brides now have the freedom to tailor their attire to reflect their personal styles, whether that means wearing a veil, a delicate hairpiece, or choosing to forego any headwear altogether. In Hawaii, you can often see brides wearing a beautiful haku lei on their heads!
Photography: Christie Pham Photography (Top) Photography: Derek Wong Photography (Bottom)
from tradition to trends
In addition to revisiting traditional customs, couples nowadays embrace alternative wedding trends that showcase their unique personalities and love stories. Some opt for themed weddings that transport their guests to another era or destination, while others choose to elope in intimate settings or celebrate their union in unconventional venues. Personalized vows, environmentally-friendly wedding favors, and creative food and drink presentations are also gaining popularity, allowing couples to infuse their weddings with authentic touches that perfectly reflect who they are as individuals and as a couple!
Photography: VIVIDfotos
While wedding traditions serve as a beautiful reminder of our past, it is heartening to witness the gradual transformation of these customs into modern trends that reflect who we are today. From the first look to the alternative wedding venues, couples are embracing their freedom to craft their perfect day on their own terms. As we move forward, it remains important to cherish the rituals and customs that hold significance for us, while also embracing the new trends that allow our wedding celebrations to be an authentic expression of love and joy! :-)
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