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5 Ways to Honor Passed Loved Ones at Your Wedding

Losing a loved one is never easy, and on a momentous occasion like your wedding day the thought of them not being there may be difficult to endure. Though there is no way to ever fully replace their prescense, there are ways to honor and remember those who have passed on your wedding day.

Hopefully these various ideas can bring a sense of comfort and love to you and your family on the special occasion. Here are 5 heartfelt and meaningful ways to honor passed loved ones at your wedding, ensuring their presence is felt and cherished throughout the celebration.

1. Memory Table Display

Setting up a memory table at your wedding venue can be a beautiful way to honor your passed loved ones. Arrange framed photographs, sentimental objects, and personal items of those who have passed in a designated area. Include a sign or a small note explaining the significance of the display, so guests can appreciate and pay their respects. This touching tribute will allow both you and your guests to remember and celebrate the lives of those who cannot be physically present.

Photography: Caitlin Alohilani Photography

2. Light a Memorial Candle

Photography: Derek Wong Photography

During the ceremony or at a designated moment during the reception, consider lighting a memorial candle in honor of your loved ones. The flickering flame symbolizes their eternal presence and the light they brought into your lives. You can even have a dedicated space, such as a small table, where the candle can be placed throughout the event, serving as a constant reminder of the love that endures beyond life.


3. Reserve a Seat or Place in a Ceremony

One touching way to honor passed loved ones is by reserving a seat or place in your ceremony specifically for them. You can place a framed photo or a small memorial plaque on a chair, bench, or pew to symbolize their presence. This simple gesture acknowledges their importance and ensures that they will forever hold a special place in your heart and within the festivities of your wedding day.

4. Include Their Favorite Flowers or Songs

Florist: Always Flowers 808 | Photography: Mike Pham Photography

Incorporating elements that were dear to your departed loved ones is another heartfelt way to honor them. If they had a favorite flower, consider using it in your floral arrangements or bouquets. Listening to their favorite songs during the reception or incorporating them into the ceremony can evoke cherished memories and create an emotional connection between you, your loved ones, and your guests.

This gesture not only pays homage to their memory but also infuses your big day with their undeniable spirit.

5. Keep Them Close

There is something deeply sentimental about wearing a photo of your loved one on your wedding day or having a photo of them nestled in your bouquet. It is a way to keep your beloved close, even if they cannot physically be there to witness your special day. As you exchange vows and take those monumental steps towards a lifetime of love and commitment, that small photo serves as a constant reminder of the love and support that surrounds you. It encapsulates the cherished memories and binds them to the present, creating a beautiful connection between past and future, and ensuring that your loved one's spirit remains intertwined with your joyous celebration.

Photography: Love Story Weddings Photography

All in all we hope this provided you with five heartfelt ways to honor passed loved ones at your wedding. By incorporating these meaningful gestures, you can infuse their memories into your special day, creating an atmosphere of love, connection, and remembrance.

Whether it is through displaying photographs, lighting a memorial candle, including their favorite flowers/songs, reserving a place at the ceremony, or keeping a photo of them close to you, each gesture serves as a beautiful tribute that celebrates their presence in spirit. Allowing your loved ones to be present in both your hearts and in the cherished memories of your wedding day.

XOXOXO

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